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Thursday, February 20, 2014 @ 6:10 AM

Posted this at the wrong blog and i only realised it 6 days later? Hahahahahah slow.


Friday, September 20, 2013 @ 2:22 AM

Letting go

There is a specific feeling which exists only when you run into someone about whom you had long forgotten. It’s probably most palpable when it’s an ex, but it can happen with friends who were once particularly close. It is comparable to a scab that seems to have been on your skin forever — a scrape which was once quite painful but has been so long in the healing process that you no longer notice its presence when you wash over it in the shower. You peel it off almost out of boredom and suddenly there is a drop or two of blood, something that vaguely resembles the wound it once was, now too distant to really cause any discomfort. These people are wounds which have healed over, which have never quite turned into scars but which have become just another part of your lived-in body.

Letting someone go — when it is a necessary act of self-preservation, something that has to come if you expect to move forward in life — is regarded as a kind of victory. You have successfully overcome an emotional trauma that once surrounded you like a kind of fog which prevented you from ever seeing the sun. People will tell you, always with the best intentions, that one day you are going to wake up and realize that you are okay, and your life is not immediately over because they are no longer a part of it. And this is true, though it’s not the net positive that we are so quick to label it as. Because it’s not as though you simply wake up one day and proclaim yourself fine, suddenly hearing birds chirp and children laugh after months of only your own oppressive silence. You simply start to forget, feeling the acute pain of the loss less and less as each day goes on. There will come a day when you don’t care, but you won’t notice it, because you will have other things to think about.

But in order to let that pain go, in order to remove this person from the place of power they have occupied for so long, you must let everything go. Perhaps in a very distant future, you will be able to pick and choose the memories you want to keep, but for a very long time, one memory will always bleed into another. You cannot simply think about the time the two of you sat on the beach for an entire night, talking about your childhood, drinking the second-least-expensive wine you could find in the store. Because when you allow yourself to think about that, it will remind you of them as a whole, and will lead into all of the terrible things that happened after that night — not the least of which being their eventual departure. They exist within us as whole people, stories with beginnings and endings, and in order to let go of them we cannot choose the things we want to isolate for nostalgia.

We have to stop caring what they would think if they saw us, stop worrying about running into them in the store, stop obsessing over the things we could have done differently to make them stay. And that means letting go of everything they meant to us, proving to ourselves that life can be just as good, just as beautiful, without them in it. When you realize, long after the fact, that you no longer care about someone — that what they are doing in life has no bearing on you, and vice versa — it feels very much like a small death. Who they were with you no longer exists, and you cannot even preserve it in your memory, for the sake of your own mental health.

I recently ran into someone I used to know very well. I hadn’t seen him in close to two years, and I barely recognized him when I crossed him on the sidewalk. I had forgotten that it was his neighborhood, had forgotten that we used to eat there, forgotten it all. And he looked different, different enough to be slightly unsettling. We exchanged words, but as people who had barely ever known each other. It was a spoken confirmation that things had indeed changed — that we had let one another go, out of necessity — and that the parts of ourselves we needed to erase to move on were just going to have to be forgotten. Of course, you never really forget anyone, but you certainly release them. You stop allowing their history to have any meaning for you today. You let them change their haircut, let them move, let them fall in love again. And when you see this person you have let go, you realize that there is no reason to be sad. The person you knew exists somewhere, but you are separated by too much time to reach them again.

We told each other we should get coffee sometime, but didn’t exchange our new numbers. We knew we weren’t going to see each other again.

Monday, July 22, 2013 @ 12:40 AM

When was the last time im in tears like this? ='(

Sunday, July 21, 2013 @ 12:42 AM

Why do i feel like i meet people in life who isnt ready for a relationship? Or is it just me who isnt ready? Or i've probably met one but stupid enough to let him go and expects the next one to be of similar standards.

Friday, July 12, 2013 @ 1:55 AM

Despite all the mess i've made in life,
deep down i know i still love him
There was love and there still is.
I probably interpret it wrong all this while. 😔

Thursday, May 23, 2013 @ 4:36 PM


Hey.

Super random feeling to blog. But im not any good with words anyway. All i can say is things arent really going on well. Things probably arent turning out the way i expected them to. But what else can i do? Just suck it all up and pretend that im okay, that this is all okay. Life is never fair.

Work, relationships with everyone and all other shitty stuffs is really taking a toll on my body. If only its possible, i really do want a short getaway with people i missed, like probably my girls, to get away from all this shitty shit. 

Im still new to answering calls at work but im already having the feelings of resigning. Work is getting too stressed. I am getting too stressed. Work, go out and no rest. And there are some motherfucker callers who think i do not have any feelings by the way they demand things from me, by the way they talk to me. Mind you people, we do have feelings too okay. We're trying our best to help you but what do we get in return? Just getting scoldings and unnecessary comments from you fuckedup callers? Do you think that is fair? Oh wait. I forgot, life is never fair. In just my 2 months plus in this job, i already had 2 complaints. When it is clearly isnt even my fault. I know it should dampened my spirits but it already did. The thought of going to work, answering bullshit calls from all these fuckedup people is already killing me. The 12 hours really felt so damn super long. 12 hours of having to sit glued to the screen, to the headset. 

Idk how much longer i can hang on to this job. But i need a job to support mysef, to pay off my school fees. I think i should have postponed my studies to next year. Money is forever not enough. The moment im having cash, i need to save them up for something. And i cant even use that bit of money for myself. Sighhhhhh.

And relationships wise, they are not doing ang good either. Im barely talking to anyone at home. The house just feels like a hotel room. My girls, i havent seen them in months. Everybody been busy with their stuffs, work and school. Guess all of this is part of growing up isnt it? The feelings of getting over an ex, having someone new and ahhh whatever shit else. Maybe i just need time alone, on my own. I dont even know what im doing. Somethings just dont feel so right. Idk what but sighhhh. =(

Sunday, March 3, 2013 @ 11:49 PM


Heyya.

Soooooo, hello 2013! Hello March. And hello to my new job. Yes, the full-time job that I've been waiting for. I finally got a job and started work already. Just having some weird random feeling to update my dusty blog which i assume nobody reads.

Life isn't any great lately. Had some changes in life. Hopefully positive changes. Hopefully I'll get into school again this year. But I wonder how am I to juggle between work and school. SHIFT work and school. I know it's gona be tough. But it's all gona be worth it in the end isn't it?

I have loads of things planned out for myself over the coming years. And i can't afford to be weighed down by things or people who might affect it all. I have my own goals that i wana achieve. And i can do this alone, with my family, girlfriends. I've been to dependent on certain people and it's about time I learn how to depend on myself.

Im not a small girl anymore. I CAN DO THIS. =)

Sunday, December 9, 2012 @ 4:03 AM

My life has never been smooth sailing.


@ 4:02 AM

I've abandoned my blog for a few months now. Probably people are wondering how's life going on or how are things going or wth am i. I guess all i have to say is i've been busy trying so hard to earn money but still struggling to survive through each month. How i really wish a miracle can happen and just grant me my wish of having a proper fulltime job. Please.

Apart from my failed job search for a few months now, life isnt that great anymore. I cant feel but to feel sad, depresssed and all of the other negative feelings. Cant seem to find that positive side in life anymore. Everybody leaves but only family stays. I guess thats the only thing that keeps me going and makes me happy now.

I really miss my girls. It had been a really really really long time since i last saw them. It feels like its ancient years ago since i last had a good quality time with them. But i cant blame anyone can i? The only person i can blame is just myself. Im the one who didnt make time. Im the one who just disappeared just like that.

Apart from that, things with him isnt really going on well either. I feel more like just a friend than a girlfriend. I never did feel special. As the days goes on, the more i see him as just a friend, a bestfriend. For 2 years plus im waiting for him to bring me out on a real date. 2 years plusssss! But still none. For how much longer must i wait for him to be a boyfriend material? Ahhhh, i dont think i should reveal too much. Thats not only it.

I really just feel so stressed, depressed and even more depressed right now. =''''(

Wednesday, September 19, 2012 @ 12:54 AM


Kau hadir tanpa ku sedari
Mengisi kekosongan hati
Kini kau pergi tinggalkan ku
Lemas ku dalam sepi

Hujan yang turun ke bumi
Membawa rindu yang mengunung
Kau biarkan ku oh sendiri
Malam ku tanpa mimpi

Mengapa tangan kau lepaskan
Setelah hatiku kau tawan
Mengapa takdir memisahkan
Hanya aku cinta kau seorang

Mengapa tangan kau lepaskan
Setelah hatiku kau tawan
Angin malam bawalah cintaku
Menghapus rasa rindu

Her.

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Shaqqqeeylaa.

Fickle.
Control Queen.
Things have to go my way.
What else?






Still somewhere out there.


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